Change happens from the inside out.

Virtual therapy for Colorado & New York.

No matter how hard you try, you worry you’ll fall short.

You’ve been so focused on meeting other people’s needs that you’ve overlooked your own. When you do check in with yourself, it’s hard to know how you feel or what you want, or you encounter challenging thoughts and feelings you don’t know how to manage.

Pamela Hamer, Psy.D.

I can help.

I empower people who care deeply about doing their best to find a healthier balance between meeting their own needs and the needs of others. I’ll help you learn how changing your relationship to your thoughts and feelings can have a positive impact on every area of your life.

I listen with compassion, and will gently challenge you when needed to move you forward. I show up as a “real” person, with humor and kindness, and welcome you to do the same.

You’re not alone.